This is Beyond Awful.
It seems that some truly twisted pieces of human refuse, identifying themselves as representatives of the Red Cross, are calling spouses of Marines and informing them that their spouses serving in Iraq have been killed. The Marine Corps has advised military spouses that it does not use the Red Cross for such notifications.
I hope there is a special place in hell for people who would do such a thing.
Link via Res Ipsa Loquitur.